Stage 2: When a parent needs a hand

Start helping

You might be here if: You've started paying a bill or two, sorting mail, or sitting in on calls with the bank.

Helping usually starts small. A missed bill, a confusing letter from the government, a phone call with the bank that goes better with two people on the line.

At this stage your parent is still in charge, and you are helping them stay that way. The guides here cover practical ways to help with bills and banking, how to get visibility on accounts without taking control, how to spot scams aimed at older adults, and how to share the load with siblings.

They also cover choices that look simple but have real consequences, like adding your name to a parent's bank account.

Guides for this stage